Camping with the family

Saturday, October 11, 2014


Our first time in our new camper, and we are so excited! The kids are living their dream!


We arrived in the evening, just in time to see the setting sun glowing across the water.


Our first camping trip of the year. It was also my favorite one of the whole summer. We went to a new spot we had never camped at before, high up in the Boise national forest, called Sage Hen Reservoir. It was so high up in the mountains that the forest was uncustomarily thick and lush and green, just the way I like it. I mean, there were ferns, and moss!! Which is SO not Idaho. The moss and ferns are for Washington and the tumbleweeds and dry brush are for Idaho. The temperatures were also cooler because of the altitude, so it was actually a really nice change and escape from the usual hot weather we have in the summer. We didn't go swimming, which was fine by me because it made my job easier. Drying towels and swimsuits and dressing all the kids in their gear and slathering on sunscreen, then lugging their buckets and floaties to and from the water--it's a full-time job, and I was glad to avoid it and instead take more time to prepare meals, sit around the fire, take walks, snap pictures of the kids.

I am so grateful that we get to have these weekends with our kids up in the mountains, surrounded by God's beautiful nature that never fails to remind me that He's near me and loves me and He created all this for me. For us. I think it's so important to have long chunks of uninterrupted time in this technology-obsessed world for families to remember what it feels like to just be together. I believe it helps us find a comfortable rhythm in which we function as a family. We are all present, no one is rushing off to soccer practice or work, we aren't spread out in separate rooms, eating meals at separate times. There's no schedule and nobody has to go places they don't want to go. We stick together all day long and just observe each other doing our thing. At home we don't have the patience for that.

When you put yourself in a completely different environment like this and are able to separate yourself from your everyday world, there is so much more room for conversation to happen, jokes to be told, funny things to happen that we can all laugh about later. The kids remember all kinds of things that they have been wanting to tell you. It unites you as a family. I hope our kids understand that, yes, we enjoy camping too, but we really do it for them. It is SO much work to take four children camping, especially a busy, busy baby that WILL NOT for the life of her sit still, but I find it so rewarding as well. There were times I wanted to quit and go home (or tie Naomi to a tree--either/or), but I know she had so much fun. Just for the fact that I can get Bogdan away from his work and up to where his cell phone won't work even if he wanted it to--it's really the only way that I can get him completely to ourselves these days--and it's worth it just for that. I know he needs that break as much as we need him to take it.


The kids spent a good chunk of the afternoon catching tadpoles and collecting them in their buckets. The water was cold, but they at least got to go in up to their knees. Bogdan and I put Naomi to sleep in the stroller and sat on a fallen log nearby, watching the kids while chatting. Then Bogdan and Ben went for a run together, exploring all the trails that surround the lake and nearby areas.


This is why I love camping. Ben gets his dad's uninterrupted attention, and Lord knows boys need their fathers at this age.


The luxury of a fridge and a sink (and cupboards!) made food prep so amazingly easy, I don't know if I can ever go back. Less frustration is always a good thing. Oh, and a toilet AT the place you sleep? AH-mazing! No more running out into the cold, dark night, fumbling with shoes and coats and hats and flashlights, holding the flashlight for each other so you can see what you're doing. I don't miss it.


He got a new ax that he did a lot of research to find, and he LOVES splitting wood now. I call that a win-win.


They love this hammock chair. If we were ever at our campsite, they were in this chair.


There was no flat ground at our campsite whatsoever, and even the road was slanted, which made it hard for Naomi to find good spots to play in. One of us had to be holding her hand at all times, and we had to make sure she wouldn't roll down any hills or fall into the fire, because any little stumble will send her sprawling.


Oh, the joy an empty water jug and some rocks bring! This was her favorite.


There was a really pretty hike just across the street from us, and us brave people decided to do it with a stroller. We don't use slings or carriers with Naomi because she hates anything that constricts her in any way, and we couldn't exactly carry her the whole time, so we did the best we could with the stroller. We rode it over rocks and logs and carried it over large boulders and rough terrain. Naomi even fell asleep at one point as we were carrying her up some rocky places.


The girls were calling, "Tato, Tato!" because Naomi had woken up and it was time to turn back. :) We went as far as we wanted to go with the stroller, and Bogdan and Ben had gone on ahead to see what we were going to miss. They discovered some pretty waterfalls and big clusters of large boulders along the path as well. Maybe we can go back sometime soon and hike the whole thing and explore some more. It was such a beautiful hike. The kids didn't want to go at the beginning because they knew it'd be a lot of work, but they loved it and couldn't stop talking about it after.


S'mores are definitely a favorite camping activity for us! I pride myself on making pretty darn near perfect marshmallows!


xoxo,
Tanya

Taking it back to Father's Day

Saturday, October 4, 2014


Father's Day weekend was kind of a blur this year. Thinking back, I basically just remember that it was fun and it was a blur. We had a lot of things packed into a few measly days, so it was just one of those 'go go go' weekends. We spent Father's Day at the park with our church, celebrating Sunday School getting out for the summer as well as all of our fathers. I honestly don't even remember if I made breakfast in bed for Bogdan or not, but I hope I did. Sundays are always rushed in the morning, so I may not have. Let's just say I did. After church, the kids got to run relay races and play tug-of-war at the park and the adults got to chat. B's dad was there and mine came as well, which was perfect. I got some great shots of my dad with Naomi. I don't have many pictures of him, and not many of him with my kids, so I'm glad to have these. Naomi never cooperates for pictures (or for anything for that matter), so we got mostly shots of her crying and sliding out of Bogdan's arms like a fish. :) That child. If she doesn't want something, there is NO WAY you are going to convince her otherwise. You might as well not even try. It just goes from bad to worse and never to better. Ever.

Besides Father's Day, we attended three church services that weekend to hear George Davidyuk speak (so good) and packed the kids' things for a week-long vacation with their grandparents to Yellowstone and Lava Hot Springs. They slept over at grandma and grandpa's that night after the park so they could get going early the next morning, so we went home with one child out of four--not bad. :)

The next day was our anniversary, but Naomi was having such a hard time while a couple new teeth were making their way out that I couldn't imagine leaving her with someone else for the evening. She wanted nothing but mama, poor thing. And there were a million diapers to change, and all you mamas know that poop while teething causes diaper rash within minutes. You have to basically be the poop police to try to prevent that severe rash that just eats through the skin and draws blood and doesn't heal for a week. Poor, poor dears have to go through that...no fun at all. So we ordered my favorite balsamic prosciutto pizza in, I baked some apricot rum bread that I love, and we ate our dinner and rented a movie and that was that. Twelve years down, a lifetime more to go!

xoxo,
Tanya

I think it's time

Thursday, October 2, 2014


I have obviously been missing from this space for a while, and it seems life (and a slow computer) got the best of me again. I love blogging, but it's kind of a chore on an old, very slow computer, and I often didn't have the patience for it. Also, my days were just moving so quickly at the time I stopped writing, and I really just wanted to be completely IN it and not taking chunks of time away from it all to sit on my computer and rehash everything. Time is honestly so, so scarce to me these days, and I just want to enjoy every second of it, enjoy the stages each of my kids are in right NOW. I didn't want my time at the computer to take away from the time I could devote to my family. Naomi keeps me on my toes all day long, and then when we got the kids in bed at night, most nights the last thing I wanted to do was work some more. So I'd pick vegging on the couch for a bit before trudging upstairs with heavy eyelids to start it all over again the next morning. I thought about this blog of mine often, and wondered when I would post something again, but before I knew it, summer was over and school started and September flew by as we got into our new groove, and...what do you know, it's now October! Phew. 

I'm just glad I forced myself to get that first post up (just as soon as I finish writing it), and now that I've cleared that hurdle, it should be easier going from here. I love capturing our family life and being able to put words with the pictures, to describe what was going on in those pictures, in those moments in time. I'm still going to post some things from summer that I really want to document just because I'm like that. Chronological order all the way. Or alphabetical, or color coded, or whatever other way are favorites of mine as well. :) So the next few posts I want to gather my thoughts about the amazing, amazing summer we had, and then it will be fall posts all the way! I'm trying to love fall (I secretly start dreading winter whenever fall starts creeping in), so I plan on experiencing every glorious aspect of it to keep my mind off the months and months of bone-chilling cold ahead. Oh and by the way, thanks for sticking around and checking in here still! 

P.S. The pictures with this post are some fun shots I got in early June (!!). I had this post saved as a draft when I suddenly vanished off the face of the earth, so I'm starting off with them. Many of them are similar to some I posted on Instagram, but I decided I liked these versions better (I'm so hard to please, I know). A little recap below: 

1. pool hangs 2. sunday naps 3. little miss bossy in her red skirt 4. banana bread 5. trying to escape the pool 6. park with friends 7. hung the dream catcher i've been wanting to make and finally did 8. apricot rum bread--heaven in a loaf pan 9. mila's adorable butterfly life cycle 10. ben launching baking soda and vinegar bombs 11. naomi at the park 12. more bottle bomb launching 13. enjoying the summer sunshine 14. naomi post nap 15. that plastic pig is a favorite 16. making music with friends at the park

xoxo, 
Tanya